Whilst the new school term has just begun, like many parents, you may already be thinking ahead to September 2024, when your child will be due to start or change school.
As applications for next autumn’s school places open, many parents are considering their options.
But deciding which school you want to send your child to can be a source of contention, and tricky to resolve, especially for separated and divorced parents who disagree.
“For separated parents who cannot agree on the choice of school for their child, this can be a very difficult time of year,” says Family Matters’ director and family mediator Juliette Dalrymple.
She goes on to say:
“Disagreements may be related to a number of factors, including faith, ideology and cost”
Parents living in different locations
It can be especially hard where both parents live in completely different locations. Even if you have agreed parenting arrangements, so that the child spends time with both of you, applying for a school place in one or other location can feel like a much longer-term decision.
Whatever the source of the conflict, with your child’s future education in the balance, where can separated parents turn?
“If you cannot agree with the other parent about which school to apply to, then involving a mediation specialist can be a useful way forward,” says Juliette.
Family mediation is a process that helps ex-partners agree what will work in the best interests of the child.
An independent, professionally-trained mediator can help you discuss and work out the best option, putting the child at the heart of this really important decision.
In some cases, the child can be involved in the mediation discussions to ensure their own views and wishes are fully aired.
“Our trained mediation professionals work day-in, day-out to help empower parents to create long-term solutions for your particular circumstances,” Juliette adds.
You can find out much more about the benefits of family mediation on this website, or you can email us at admin@familymattersmediate.co.uk or call us on 03300 881440 if you want to make an appointment.
